Two celebrations · one story
Matt & Cara
Spain in October. South Africa in December. Everything guests need to arrive relaxed, informed and ready to celebrate.
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Planning note
Save both dates. Final transport and accommodation guidance will be published here.
Flight schedules and weather can change. We will add confirmed pickup points, final timings and any venue-specific notes nearer each celebration.
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The celebrations
Two places we love,
shared with the people we love.
The Spain wedding is an elegant Andalusian finca celebration near Arcos de la Frontera. The South Africa wedding is a warm summer gathering at Mission House in the green KwaZulu-Natal Midlands.
Finca Mesa Jardín
Arcos de la Frontera · Cádiz · Andalucía
An Andalusian cortijo surrounded by gardens, olive trees and open countryside, with views towards the Sierra de Grazalema.
- Guest arrival
- 17:30
- Ceremony
- 18:00
- Celebration ends
- 00:00
- Dress feel
- Elegant finca
Wearable elegance. Choose breathable fabrics and shoes that work on garden paths and courtyards. Bring a light evening layer.
See the Spain travel plan →
Mission House
KwaZulu-Natal Midlands · near Howick
A relaxed country-estate wedding with green lawns, long summer light and the unmistakable atmosphere of the Midlands.
- Guest arrival
- 16:30
- Ceremony
- 17:30
- Celebration ends
- 23:30
- Dress feel
- Country summer
Summer with a rain plan. December is warm and green, with possible afternoon storms. Bring a light rain layer and lawn-friendly shoes.
See the South Africa travel plan →
Until we celebrate
Two countdowns,
one unforgettable year.
02
Travel concierge
Choose the journey that suits your trip.
Book flexible travel where possible. Regional routes can be seasonal, so compare the nearest airport with the wider-route alternatives before committing.
ES
Getting to Spain
Andalusia, made simple.
Jerez Airport
Closest practical airport for Arcos. Best when a suitable direct or connecting route is available.
Closest optionSeville Airport
Usually the strongest balance of flight choice and driving time for European guests.
Recommended defaultMálaga Airport
The broadest international choice, ideal when turning the wedding into a longer Andalusian trip.
Most flight choiceThe wedding-weekend route
- Thursday: arrive via Jerez or Seville; settle in Arcos or Jerez.
- Friday: old-town lunch, finca-country drive and an early evening.
- Saturday: wedding day at Finca Mesa Jardín.
- Sunday: relaxed brunch before departure.
The Andalusian celebration
- 2 nights Seville: architecture, tapas and evening walks.
- 2 nights Cádiz or Chiclana: beach, seafood and Atlantic sunsets.
- 3 nights Arcos/Jerez: white villages, bodegas and the wedding.
- Optional detour: Grazalema, Zahara or Ronda by car.
Our practical recommendation: Seville is the safest all-round starting point; Jerez is the closest; Málaga is best for guests prioritising route choice or a longer holiday.
ZA
Getting to South Africa
Durban, Midlands, then adventure.
King Shaka International
The main arrival airport for the KZN Midlands, with the broadest rental-car and transfer options.
Recommended defaultPietermaritzburg
Closer to Howick and the Midlands, but with a smaller domestic schedule and fewer backup options.
Closest regionalJohannesburg connection
A common international gateway. Connect onward to Durban rather than driving after a long-haul flight.
International gatewayThe wedding-weekend route
- Thursday: fly to Durban and transfer to the Midlands.
- Friday: Midlands Meander lunch and gentle exploring.
- Saturday: wedding day at Mission House.
- Sunday: brunch, Howick stop and onward travel.
The KZN celebration
- 2 nights Durban: coast, food and an easy long-haul landing.
- 4 nights Midlands: wedding, Meander and country stays.
- 2 nights Drakensberg: mountain scenery and restorative time.
- 2+ nights: add a safari reserve or continue to Cape Town.
Our practical recommendation: fly into Durban, pre-book a transfer or rental car, and avoid a late-night self-drive to the Midlands after long-haul travel.
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Where to stay
Base yourself for calm arrivals.
Final preferred accommodation and transport pickup points will be published once supplier routes are locked.
Arcos or Jerez
Arcos de la Frontera is best for countryside atmosphere and a short wedding-day journey. Jerez offers stronger transport links, restaurants and a larger hotel choice.
- Best for the venue: Arcos
- Best for flights and nightlife: Jerez
- Beach extension: Cádiz, Chiclana or Vejer
Howick or the Midlands Meander
Howick is practical for shops and local transfers. Midlands country stays offer the most memorable wedding-weekend atmosphere.
- Best for logistics: Howick
- Best for experience: Curry’s Post / Nottingham Road area
- Coastal extension: Umhlanga or Durban
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Make a trip of it
Places worth staying for.
These are starting points, not fixed group events. Check opening days, booking requirements and travel times before setting off.
Arcos de la Frontera
Whitewashed lanes, cliff-edge viewpoints and an atmospheric historic centre above the Guadalete valley.
Jerez
Sherry bodegas, flamenco culture, equestrian heritage and long lunches in the old town.
Cádiz & La Barrosa
Atlantic beaches, seafood, sunset walks and an easy coastal contrast to the finca setting.
Vejer & the coast
A polished white village with excellent restaurants, close to El Palmar and the Cádiz coastline.
Grazalema & Zahara
A scenic white-village route through mountain landscapes, best with a car and a full day.
Seville extension
Architecture, gardens, tapas and evening energy—an ideal city bookend to the wedding trip.
Midlands Meander
Country cafés, galleries, farm shops, craft stops and scenic drives between Howick and Nottingham Road.
Howick & Mandela Capture Site
Combine Howick Falls with one of South Africa’s most significant historical visitor experiences.
Drakensberg
Mountain scenery, walking routes and restorative lodges—an excellent post-wedding extension.
Durban & Umhlanga
Warm-water coast, Indian-influenced food and an easy decompression stop after a long flight.
Safari extension
Add a well-run reserve with professional guides; book early for the December holiday period.
Cape Town add-on
For international guests, a domestic flight can turn the wedding journey into a broader South African holiday.
The useful details
Pack for the setting,
not just the photograph.
Spain weather
Mild autumn days are likely, with cooler countryside evenings and some possibility of rain. Final guidance will follow 7–10 days before the date.
South Africa weather
Warm summer conditions, green landscapes and a real chance of an afternoon or evening storm.
Shoes
Block heels, smart flats, loafers or boots are safer than stilettos for gardens, lawns and uneven country surfaces.
Transport
Answer transport questions early. Pickup groups depend on where guests stay and the final number needing a seat.
Frequently asked
Before you message us…
We will keep expanding this section as plans are confirmed.
When should we book flights?
Once your attendance is confirmed, begin tracking routes and book when the itinerary and price feel right. Prefer flexible fares because regional schedules can change.
Will there be wedding-day transport?
We are planning route groups for Spain and South Africa. Final pickup locations depend on where guests stay, so please answer transport questions promptly.
Can children attend?
Please follow the invitation addressed to your household. Contact us directly if anything is unclear.
What should we wear?
Both weddings are polished but relaxed. Spain is elegant finca style; South Africa is smart country-summer style. Avoid shoes that struggle on grass or garden paths.
When will final timings be shared?
The core schedule is shown above. Exact transport, arrival and weather notes will be refreshed closer to each wedding week.
From us to you
Come for the wedding.
Stay for the adventure.
We cannot wait to share these places—and these days—with you.
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